A real woman is a woman who controls the atmosphere of here home positively, to control here means making sure the atmosphere is conducive for both her husband and children, not being the boss over the man. This is achieved by being controlled by a higher authority which is the Holy Ghost.
Every woman needs to be controlled by the Holy Ghost to be able to control the atmosphere of the home, without that your feelings will override you and you will make a lot of mistakes.
.The Holy Spirit directs, teaches, guides and comforts and these are your roles in your home. Every woman’s first career is her home, until you put it in order your life will be in disorder.
The process of teaching may take longer than expected, but you must do it all the same to give them a good foundation for their future.
To Comfort: A woman must be reachable and available to the children and husband. Proverbs 14:1 states that women are builders of the home; therefore you must be available, physically, spiritually and mentally. You are the coordinator of your home and God counts so much on you. God gave you the power of influence to see your husband and children through challenges and bring them out comforted.
A positive influence on your husband’s mentality and your prayers can defeat any form of challenge set against him likewise your children. Words of comfort are powerful; they can turn in your favour what the devil meant for evil. Make your husband and children rely and confined in you and victory shall be yours in your home.
Remember woman, your husband is your first baby, be there for him and God who brought you as his helper will bless you. But without the Holy Ghost you cannot achieve these. Therefore ask him to come he will empower you and fill you with the right knowledge. He must live in you because you cannot give what you don’t have.
God bless you.